Wednesday, 27 May 2015

Eden - One Month

Eden's first monthly photo, taken on the 12th of every month.

Eden turned one month old on the 12th of March, over two months ago. The first few weeks with Eden have gone so fast. We managed to fit in a trip to Dubai for a week to visit my sister when she was 6 weeks old and Holden has recently started school nursery, which is why her first monthly update is so late.

My recovery after my section was so much better this time, and Graham had a full three weeks off work which definitely made it easier and I took it easy the whole time. Once he went back to work it was just me, Holden & Eden which took some getting used too. However, we have definitely been much more relaxed this time (even though we were with Holden too) and it doesn't seem as hard having a newborn again, probably because we knew what to expect. We had a busy few weeks after she was born, with lots of family and friends visiting us. We also managed to get out and about quite a lot too, taking the buggy for walks, getting Eden registered, lunch trips, dinner and an overnight stay at my parents, shopping trips and finally applying for Eden's passport in Glasgow. Once Graham was back at work we also had a trip to soft play with our friends who live 2 doors away from us, and who also have a 3 year old and a new baby just five weeks older than Eden. When it's just me on my own with them both, it does take a while to get ready but hopefully that will get easier.

Holden has been very good with Eden and he likes to hold, cuddle and kiss her, asking straight away when he came to see us in the hospital for the first time. He's adapted really well to having a little sister and he calls her my Eden, and when she cries he always tries to give her to me to be fed. For the whole of her first month, Holden was still attending his nursery for two days a week. This gave us some time with just Eden while Graham was off and gave me some time with just Eden once Graham had returned to work. As I couldn't drive after my section, Graham took him there and back which meant I got some more time to rest.

Eden holds her head up quite well and she has done from the beginning, when she tried to hold her head up almost right away. She has been pretty alert since she was born as well, following people and tracking movement including the toys hanging over her bouncer. She definitely looks like she is smiling sometimes, especially at her big brother, although it's hard to tell and we haven't managed to get a photo yet. She's only tried her baby gym once so far but she sits in her bouncer for short times. She is a very settled baby and quite happy to be held or cuddled by anyone, different from Holden who preferred to lie down with people talking to him.

Eden is feeding really well, and has done since we were in the recovery room, which was completely different from the issues we had with Holden's tongue tie. When she got weighed at 4 days old she had only lost 20g / 1oz since birth and was 6lb 13oz which was brilliant. She weighed 7lb 1oz at 11 days and 7lb 7oz at 19 days. So far, Eden has been an even better than sleeper than Holden was. After a couple of weeks of the usual interrupted sleep, we had a couple of nights of between 6 and 7 hours then it was interrupted again for a while. By the time she was 4 weeks old she was back to roughly 6 hours per night, although some nights were better than others.

Unfortunately we've had to see the doctor a couple of times, the first at only 3 days old when the midwife sent us to A&E as she was concerned about her breathing. They couldn't find anything and she's been fine since. She then had an eye infection which required some ointment, but we now think it's actually a blocked duct. I saw the doctor at the same time for a reaction to my injections. They quickly changed them and I saw the haematologist again, and the only thing they said was to take one of my injections to Dubai with me. Next month Eden will have her 6 week check with the health visitor, I'll have mine and our trip to Dubai.

I'm going to take the same photos every month if I can, on the chair beside her penguin and on her lambskin rug. The chair and rug are the same ones we used for Holden's photos.

Friday, 8 May 2015

40 Weeks

It's taken me ages to post my last pregnancy update, but I wanted to have it all documented. I took the photo at 40 weeks but obviously now Eden is almost three months old!

After my last update at 39 weeks, when I had just had my scan, I spent the rest of my last week being pregnant doing the final preparations for Eden's arrival.

On Saturday, I got all the thank you cards for Holden's Christmas and birthday presents written and tidied all of my craft stuff that was lying around. Sunday was spent at Vogrie country park on our last outing as a family of three, with some last bits of shopping on the way home. Once home we put the shelves and a picture up in Eden's room and sorted changing stations in her room, in the downstairs toilet and in our ensuite, so there is one on every floor of our house. We enjoyed dinner at Nando's on Sunday night too. 

On Monday, Holden and I had our last outing just the two of us. We had lunch at a soft play cafe then Holden chose a soft toy jellycat bumble bee as a gift for his little sister which he then brought to the hospital with him when he visited us for the first time.

On Tuesday and Wednesday Holden was still at his nursery for the full day. My mum came down on the Tuesday to help me tidy up in the house and cook some meals to put in the freezer, then we enjoyed a lunch out afterwards. That night I also got some of Holden's baby book done and although it's still not finished, at least some of it is!

On Wednesday I had to go to the hospital in Livingston for a pre op appointment at 11am. We didn't want Graham to start his paternity leave any earlier so my mum came with me, just in case there were any problems. I also took all the hospital bags in the car with us, just in case! We had a quick stop in at the church coffee morning on the way, where everyone was wishing me well for the next day. The appointment itself was really quick, they took blood, checked my blood pressure and the baby's heartbeat then talked me through what would happen the next day. I was given tablets to take that night and the next morning and told not to eat or drink after midnight. I was also measured for my compression socks. I discovered I was the only one on the list for the next day so my section would be fairly early, and we were told to arrive for
7.45am. Once we got back we met my dad for a late lunch then picked up a couple of things at the shops, before coming home to pick up Holden. 

My parents took Holden to stay at theirs on Wednesday night since we had to leave so early on Thursday morning. They brought him to the hospital on Thursday afternoon and evening then he stayed with them again and he came back to the hospital on Friday afternoon. He stayed at my parents until Saturday when they brought him back once we got home from the hospital.

I had a shower on Wednesday night so I didn't have much to do in the morning. On Thursday morning, at exactly 40 weeks on my due date, we went in to the hospital for 7.45am. I was taken really quite early and Eden was born at 10.26am.

Saturday, 21 February 2015


...our daughter

Eden Sophia

Born on 12th February 2015, at 10.26am & weighing 6lb 14oz.

My planned section went really well and it was completely different from my emergency section with Holden. It was booked for my due date, exactly at 40 weeks. We only had to stay in the hospital for two nights and we've now been at home for a week. We are getting used to our gorgeous new arrival and being a family of four.

Friday, 6 February 2015

39 Weeks

I am currently 39+1 weeks {in my 40th week}, and the baby is still the size of a watermelon!

I had a scan this morning and thankfully, everything was ok. The baby is fine, there wasn't a lot of fluid but they seemed happy there was just enough. She is literally just using all the space, which is why I can feel / see her move all the time. The radiographer wasn't surprised the same thing had happened with Holden, and thought that it was probably just how I carried babies at the end.

After I returned home, I got a call from the section coordinator in our area, wanting to confirm my section date since my scan had been fine. I have now been moved to a different hospital, which is in Livingston, slightly further away from us, but it's generally quieter and I shouldn't get moved again. I was given the option of the same date we'd arranged last week or the other slot three days earlier but we opted to keep it as it was, as it gives her a bit more time to grow, and we have a few more days to get organised. I have to go to the hospital maternity ward the day before for a pre-op appointment and to see where I will need to go the next day. So now I won't need to see my midwife again, as my bloods will be taken at the hospital.

Otherwise we are all organised. Mine and the baby's hospital bags are all packed, with extra stuff in bags to keep in the car just in case. We've put the buggy board on the pram and also got big brother gifts for Holden ready. This week I also managed to wash some more things for the baby, including some smaller sleepsuits and clothes I bought, met a friend for lunch, got some snacks to take to the hospital, and visited our neighbour and her new baby. This weekend I've got some thank you cards to write for Holden's birthday presents, hopefully we'll get the shelves and pictures up in the baby's room and finish anything else we wanted to do before baby arrives.

Monday, 2 February 2015

38 Weeks & Measuring Small

I am currently 38+4 weeks {in my 39th week}, and the baby is the size of a watermelon! Since baby reached full term at 37 weeks, she could technically arrive any time.

My bump hasn't really grown much in the last few weeks, but she has moved down a bit.

I saw the midwife again on Friday 30th, when I was 38 weeks. It wasn't my usual midwife again but the same one I saw last time. I had to take Holden with me but they have some toys and books to amuse toddlers which is good. My mum had said the day before that she didn't think I had grown much since my last appointment. When the midwife measured me, at first she thought I was around 35 or 36, which would have been ok at this stage. However, when she checked again another couple of times, she thought that I was maybe only 34.5 or 34, which would actually be smaller than I was 3 weeks ago. When I said that I had measured small at my last appointment with Holden and a scan had shown reduced fluid, she decided that I should go for another scan just to make sure. I had a call from the hospital this afternoon and I am booked in for a scan on Friday morning. Otherwise everything was fine, I'm still getting plenty of movement and the baby's heartbeat was strong. I did have some protein in my sample but I put that down to not having had much to drink that morning as I didn't have any other issues and my blood pressure was fine. So at the moment I'm wondering what the scan will show, hopefully everything is fine and baby is just quite small or otherwise it's going to be the same as with Holden, with reduced fluid at almost 40 weeks. 

After I had seen the midwife I received a call from the section coordinator in our area, needing to rearrange my section for another date. I had two options, one two days before at a different hospital, or the day after at the hospital I had originally been given a date for. However, when I mentioned needing to have another scan first, she has kept me at the original hospital, as the other one is a bit smaller and wouldn't usually deal with any complications. So, assuming everything is fine with my fluid at my scan on Friday and baby doesn't need to come any sooner, then my section has just been moved to a day later than we originally had. I have had to change my next midwife appointment as she will need to take blood before my section and that can't be done too early.

I have spent the last couple of weeks of maternity leave meeting friends for lunch (when Holden has been at nursery), having dinner out with friends one night, washing baby clothes, getting more things for my hospital bag and making arrangements for Holden's 3rd birthday, which was yesterday. We painted the top of an Ikea kids table with chalkboard paint for one of his presents, and attached two handles with hanging tubs to hold some chalk. He had his party on Saturday at a soft play centre with all his friends, which he loved, and we only had to provide the party bags and cake. On his actual birthday yesterday, we went to the cinema, to the toy shop so he could spend his vouchers / money, followed by dinner with his grandparents. We've still got shelves and pictures to go up in the baby's room but otherwise everything else is complete. The cot mattress arrived on Thursday along with Holden's buggy board. Since my midwife appointment on Friday, we also quickly washed a few more things, like the car seat cover, just in case my scan was earlier this week. We also got the new pram hood last week so we turned the buggy back into the pram at the weekend. The rest of this week I am going to pack my bags properly, wash anything else the baby needs and maybe fit in some rest time and lunch with a friend.

Tuesday, 20 January 2015

36 Weeks & Maternity Leave

I am currently 36+5 weeks {in my 37th week}, and the baby is the size of a winter melon!

My bump is growing a lot but I don't think I'm much bigger than I was with Holden at this stage, although she is definitely higher up.

I finished work last Wednesday at the end of my usual working week, so yesterday was my first actual day of maternity leave. Technically I'm using my last two weeks of holidays first before my official maternity leave begins on the 2nd of February. I'm not sure how long I will take this time, but I think by the time I use my 9 months then my holidays, I probably won't return to work until January 2016! Holden is going to continue to go to nursery his usual 2 days while I'm off which I think will be good for him to keep a bit of a routine and he enjoys seeing all of his friends there.

I saw the midwife again on Friday 9th, when I was 35 weeks. It wasn't my usual midwife, but she was lovely and sorted out a prescription for my heartburn, which is my only real complaint at this time. Otherwise everything was fine, I heard the baby's heartbeat again and I measured 34.5, which is perfect at this stage. I received a date for my planned (elective) section on Thursday, exactly at 36 weeks as the consultant had said. Although it will be between 39 & 40 weeks as we expected, we are not going to share the date as I'm aware that things may change beforehand or could be delayed.

We've made lots of progress sorting the spare room and the baby's room the last few days. We cleared the spare room then moved the double bed from the other room in to it so that the empty room could become the baby's. Graham and my dad built the drawers and cot on Saturday, then the wardrobe after an Ikea trip on Sunday. We bought Holden a bigger 4x4 kallax unit for his toys so we could move the smaller 2x4 expedit unit in to the baby's room to use as a changing station. We've also put a smaller 2x2 expedit in our downstairs toilet as another changing station so that I'm not having to keep going up the stairs. Today, since Holden is at nursery, my dad put the wallpaper up and my mum and I sorted through Holden's old clothes to see what we could keep then we got the new curtains and lampshade put up. We are waiting on the new cot mattress and the different pram hood being delivered then its only the shelves and pictures to go up on the wall. 

We had a wonderful Christmas, hosting at ours for the first time, followed by a few busy days seeing all of our family and friends. After my midwife appointment, I spent the night at Stobo Castle with my mum, aunt, best friend, her mum & her mother in law. We enjoyed a nights stay and use of the spa, as well as dinner, breakfast and lunch before we came home. We all enjoyed a treatment in the morning, when I had a lovely mother to be massage, even if the therapist seemed surprised I was 35 weeks. My sister and her family are going to be coming over from Dubai for the whole summer, so we are starting to make plans for when they are here, with a week at Center Parcs already booked for 14 of us!

The next couple of weeks I'm going to enjoy my maternity leave, meet friends, pack my hospital bags and prepare for Holden's 3rd birthday which is on the 1st of February. We are having his party at a soft play centre this year as I didn't want to have it at home when I will be 38 weeks pregnant.

Monday, 22 December 2014

32 Weeks & My Birth Choice

I am currently 32+4 weeks {in my 33rd week}, and the baby is the size of a durian!

I am getting a lot bigger now as you can see. I've had to get a new winter coat to last me through the winter months.

I'm not due to see the midwife again until 9th Jan, when I will be 35 weeks, as the surgery is shut the week before when I should normally have seen her. However, last week I saw the consultant for my appointment to discuss options for the birth.

I have decided to have a planned (elective) caesarean section, as I was given a general anaesthetic during Holden's birth and by the time I woke up everyone else had met him. I would like to make sure I'm awake for this birth and get to see and cuddle my baby first. They would not induce me again, and I would probably have refused it anyway and they also said they would be fairly quick to perform a section if the baby was in difficulty, so I feel better having it planned so we know exactly what will happen. The consultant was lovely and completely understood why I would want another section. I had thought I would need to give lots of reasons to explain but no, they said they would completely support it after what happened last time.

The section will be sometime between 39 & 40 weeks and I should get a date when I'm around 36 weeks. It feels a bit strange that we will know the babies birth date beforehand but I definitely feel this is the right decision for me this time, and at least we know beforehand what to expect. That's not to say I won't be nervous when the time comes but hopefully everything will go as expected.

Although we have cleared a bit more of the spare room,the baby's room progress has been put on hold until after Christmas, when my dad is going to put the wallpaper up. We are hosting Christmas for my family this year although there will only be 8 of us including Holden. Thankfully we then have plans for most of the days between Christmas and new year so we don't have too many days to cook.

Tuesday, 2 December 2014

28 Weeks

I am currently 29+5 weeks {in my 30th week}, and the baby is the size of a cucumber!

We went for a 4D scan when I was 26 weeks so that we could see the baby again, show Holden what a scan was like and confirm it was a girl before we buy anything else.

It was lovely to see the baby again and show Holden the baby in mummy's tummy. The sonographer confirmed it was as girl and think she thought around 2lb. She wasn't really in the best position for the pictures but we managed to get a few after wriggling around a bit and eating some sweets and fizzy juice. Although my placenta is also at the front this time around, I'm definitely feeling a lot more movement than I ever did with Holden and this time I can even see her moving at the front, and Graham can feel some kicks, which we never really did with Holden. On the way home from the scan we stopped at Gap so I could buy a dress I had seen for the baby.

As you can see my bump is growing a lot and there are only some of my normal tops that I can still wear. Im stretching out wearing my coat but I'm definitely going to have to look for another to last me through the winter months.

I saw the midwife at 28 weeks and everything is going well. Graham's parents came to watch Holden so I could go alone as I had to get blood taken and my Anti-D injection. I heard the heartbeat again and am measuring slightly under at 27 weeks but again the midwife isn't concerned. I won't see the midwife again until January, when I am 35 weeks but I was given an appointment to see the consultant in December, so that we can discuss options for the birth, after what happened during Holden's. (I might actually write about that soon!) I also had an appointment last week to get my whooping cough vaccine.

We haven't got much further with sorting the spare room or the baby's room, as we are currently storing a lot of Christmas presents in there, but we have got the wallpaper, shelves and a changing mat ready. One of my friends has just had her baby and i'm looking forward to meeting the new arrival.

We have just got back from a weekend in Grassington at their Dickensian Festival with family and friends which was a lovely way to get in to the christmas spirit. This weekend I am looking forward to meeting the B6 girls in Edinburgh for our annual Christmas secret santa swap.

Wednesday, 5 November 2014

24 Weeks

I am currently 25+6 weeks {in my 26th week}, and the baby is the size of a lettuce!

My bump is definitely growing but I still don't feel too big yet.

I had another midwife appointment at 22 weeks and everything was fine. Holden came with me and we got to hear the heartbeat and I was measuring slightly under at 20 but the midwife wasn't concerned. A couple of weeks ago both Holden and myself also had our flu vaccines. I will see the midwife again when I'm 28 weeks. I have arranged to finish work in the middle of January, taking 2 weeks holiday before my maternity leave begins at the start of February.

This time around, Graham's sister is also pregnant too, about 10 weeks behind me and due at the end of April. It's lovely to be able to compare as we go along. I'm excited to be an Auntie again and it's lovely that Holden and our new baby will have another cousin who lives a bit closer than the others. I'm already looking forward to our next family holiday with all the kids.

My sister and her family have just moved from Australia to Dubai so they are a bit closer than they were before and it will be a lot easier for them to come over and for people to visit them there. My parents are going over next week to see them before Christmas.

Just yesterday my dad papered a wall in Holden's room with robot wallpaper for us and he is also going to do a wall in the baby's room once we have the wallpaper, have cleared the other spare room and moved the bed! We have managed to sort our room which was required so that we can move some of the stuff from the spare room in to it. 

This weekend Holden has a birthday party and we have a 40th to attend before our 4D scan which we have booked for Sunday. We are hoping they can confirm its a girl before we buy anything else. We are planning to have Christmas at our house this year so that Holden can play with all his toys, rather then dragging him somewhere else for the day. My family are also going to come which will make 8 of us for dinner. Although I said our trip to Grassington would be our last until the baby arrives, I've just booked a night away at Stobo Castle with my mum, aunt, best friend, her mum & mother in law in January. It's just the girls so we plan to enjoy the spa, have dinner and relax.

Monday, 6 October 2014

20 Weeks: Its a...


I am currently 21+4 weeks {in my 22nd week}, over half way and the baby is apparently almost the size of a papaya!

We had our 20 week scan last Monday and all was well, its a girl, and we could see her wriggling around. I had to go out halfway through the scan to get some chocolate to eat and hope that she would turn as the radiographer was having trouble getting some of the measurements.

I'm growing now as well and have a definite bump, as you can see from the photo below. I will try and keep a record from now on, the same as I did with Holden. I don't think I showed as early this time which I was quite surprised about.

I saw the midwife at 16 weeks and got to hear the heartbeat. Graham and Holden were able to come too. We already knew from last time that I'm AB negative so will need an anti-D injection at 28 weeks, probably at the same time as the new whooping cough vaccine and the flu vaccine. I had an appointment to see the hematologist last Friday and I've to have the 6 weeks of blood thinning injections after birth that I had with Holden. I will see the midwife again this Friday when I will be 22+1 weeks.

I'm still feeling good and am now wearing all maternity trousers, mostly the ones from last time, although I have bought another couple of pairs of jeans and a swimming tankini that I needed for our holiday to Center Parcs.

We haven't really bought anything yet apart from a chest of drawers for the babies room but we need to work on clearing the spare room so that we can make that the guest room / study and make what is currently the guest room the babies room.

As last time, I know quite a few others that are pregnant at the same time as me and my two best friends have both recently had baby girls.

We've just come back from a holiday with my parents in the UK. We started at Alton Towers, then Lytham St Anne's then went to Center Parcs for the last 4 nights. We've got a weekend away planned at the end of November to Grassington for their Dickensian Festival with my family and friends but that will be the last trip until baby arrives.